Call No Man ‘Father’

Catholic, Eastern Orthodox, and the Church of the East tend to address ordained priests as “father.”  Although this practice dates back to the earliest days of the Church, many Protestants claim that when Catholics and others address priests as “father,” they are engaging in an unbiblical practice that Jesus forbade: “Call no man your father on earth, for you have one Father, who is in heaven” (Matt. 23:9).

However, when this verse is taken within the context of the rest of Scripture, it can be seen that Jesus was speaking in hyperbole here.  For example, He was not forbidding the use of the word “father” when we are addressing our own natural earthly fathers.  Clearly, if there is one exception, then Christ was not forbidding all use of the word “father.” Without an understanding of our own natural fathers, then we would have no understanding of God the Father.

In addition to our earthly fathers and God, the Old Testament is full of examples of relationships that God has established on earth in which people are referred to as a “father.”  These may be people who performed the role of a counselor, or benefactor, or as a spiritual father in their guidance.  For example, Joseph tells his brothers: “So it was not you who sent me here, but God; and he has made me a father to Pharaoh, and lord of all his house and ruler over all the land of Egypt” (Gen. 45:8).  Job says: “I was a father to the poor, and I searched out the cause of him whom I did not know” (Job 29:16). Elisha cries, “My father, my father!” to Elijah as the latter is carried up to heaven in a whirlwind (2 Kgs. 2:12). Later, Elisha himself is called a father by the king of Israel (2 Kgs. 6:21).  God himself declares that Eliakim, the steward of the house of David, will have a fatherly role: “In that day I will call my servant Eliakim, the son of Hilkiah . . . and I will clothe him with [a] robe, and will bind [a] girdle on him, and will commit . . . authority to his hand; and he shall be a father to the inhabitants of Jerusalem and to the house of Judah” (Isa. 22:20–21).

In the New Testament, we see the use of ‘father’ can also apply to one’s ancestors, as is shown in Acts 7:2, where Stephen refers to “our father Abraham,” or in Romans 9:10, where Paul speaks of “our father Isaac.”  It is also used in reference to spiritual fathers and sons; Paul explicitly states; “I do not write this to make you ashamed, but to admonish you as my beloved children. For though you have countless guides in Christ, you do not have many fathers. For I became your father in Christ Jesus through the gospel” (1 Cor. 4:14–15).  Paul regularly referred to Timothy as his child: “Therefore I sent to you Timothy, my beloved and faithful child in the Lord, to remind you of my ways in Christ” (1 Cor. 4:17); “To Timothy, my true child in the faith: grace, mercy, and peace from God the Father and Christ Jesus our Lord” (1 Tim. 1:2); “To Timothy, my beloved child: Grace, mercy, and peace from God the Father and Christ Jesus our Lord” (2 Tim. 1:2).  He also referred to Timothy as his son: “This charge I commit to you, Timothy, my son, in accordance with the prophetic utterances which pointed to you, that inspired by them you may wage the good warfare” (1 Tim 1:18); “You then, my son, be strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus” (2 Tim. 2:1); “But Timothy’s worth you know, how as a son with a father he has served with me in the gospel” (Phil. 2:22).  Paul also referred to other of his converts in this way: “To Titus, my true child in a common faith: grace and peace from God the Father and Christ Jesus our Savior” (Titus 1:4); “I appeal to you for my child, Onesimus, whose father I have become in my imprisonment” (Philem. 10).  Paul even refers to entire Churches as his children;  “Here for the third time I am ready to come to you. And I will not be a burden, for I seek not what is yours but you; for children ought not to lay up for their parents, but parents for their children” (2 Cor. 12:14); and, “My little children, with whom I am again in travail until Christ be formed in you!” (Gal. 4:19).  Peter and John both followed the same custom, as Peter called Mark his son: “She who is at Babylon, who is likewise chosen, sends you greetings; and so does my son Mark” (1 Pet. 5:13) and John said, “My little children, I am writing this to you so that you may not sin; but if any one does sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous” (1 John 2:1); “No greater joy can I have than this, to hear that my children follow the truth” (3 John 4). In fact, John also addresses men in his congregations as “fathers” (1 John 2:13–14).

A careful examination of the context of Matthew 23 shows that Jesus didn’t intend for his words here to be understood literally. The whole passage reads, “But you are not to be called ‘rabbi,’ for you have one teacher, and you are all brethren. And call no man your father on earth, for you have one Father, who is in heaven. Neither be called ‘masters,’ for you have one master, the Christ” (Matt. 23:8–10).  This passage, if taken literally, would also prohibit the use of teacher, doctor, mister, and mistress.   Jesus was criticizing Jewish leaders who love “the place of honor at feasts and the best seats in the synagogues, and salutations in the market places, and being called ‘rabbi’ by men” (Matt. 23:6–7). He was using hyperbole to show the pride of the scribes and Pharisees, who were not looking humbly to God as the source of all authority and fatherhood and teaching

The Historical use of
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Bible Verses:

Job 29:16

“I was a father to the poor, and I searched out the cause of him whom I did not know.”

Isaiah 22:20–21

“In that day I will call my servant Eliakim, the son of Hilkiah… and he shall be a father to the inhabitants of Jerusalem and to the house of Judah.”

Acts 7:2

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1 Corinthians 4:14–15

“I do not write this to make you ashamed, but to admonish you as my beloved children. For though you have countless guides in Christ, you do not have many fathers. For I became your father in Christ Jesus through the gospel

1 John 2:13–14

I am writing to you, fathers, because you know him who is from the beginning.  I am writing to you, young people, because you have conquered the evil one.  I write to you, children, because you know the Father.  I write to you, fathers, because you know him who is from the beginning.  I write to you, young people, because you are strong and the word of God abides in you, and you have overcome the evil one.”

Romans 9:10

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1 Corinthians  4:17

“Therefore I sent to you Timothy, my beloved and faithful child in the Lord, to remind you of my ways in Christ.”

1 Timothy 1:2

“To Timothy, my true child in the faith: grace, mercy, and peace from God the Father and Christ Jesus our Lord.”

2 Timothy 1:2

“To Timothy, my beloved child: Grace, mercy, and peace from God the Father and Christ Jesus our Lord.”

2 Timothy 2:1

“You then, my son, be strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus”

Philippians 2:22

“But Timothy’s worth you know, how as a son with a father he has served with me in the gospel”

Titus 1:4

“To Titus, my true child in a common faith: grace and peace from God the Father and Christ Jesus our Savior”

1 Timothy 1:18

“This charge I commit to you, Timothy, my son, in accordance with the prophetic utterances which pointed to you, that inspired by them you may wage the good warfare”

Philemon 10

“I appeal to you for my child, Onesimus, whose father I have become in my imprisonment”

1 Peter 5:13

“She who is at Babylon, who is likewise chosen, sends you greetings; and so does my son Mark.”

3 John 4

“No greater joy can I have than this, to hear that my children follow the truth.”

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